I personally think "social life" is given way too much in level of importance
yes, but, the question is which matters- the reality or the perception?
either way you see it- we are losing students because of this. good, competitive students. the unfortunate reality is turning out to be very costly.
i think if you fix this fixable problem- a LOT of other things will fall into place. i'm happy to expand.
i also note that quite a few of our competitors have a similar problem, though perhaps not as acute.
you should brag about your success stories at SBU- we need more of that here.
I also think that it is very hard for us to compete from an aesthetic standpoint, as many private institutions are built on park-like grounds, and unfortunately, many kids (and their parents) choose their destination school based on "looks", which adds to your stated perception problem. Very hard for a state school to compete with this. And BTW, I don't disagree with your argument, because perception does dictate a lot of decisions. We want to rank as highly as possible in any sort of survey; yes, even the social one.
What I'd like SBU to tout more - and to me personally, this is the most important stat of all - Stony Brook ranks 33rd (tie) in the country, on Annual % ROI (Return on Investment) - that is, graduation salary relative to cost paid for the education. We were 14th on this list a couple of years ago, so we have dipped a bit, but still quite impressive:
https://www.payscale.com/college-roi?page=130 (click on Annual % tab)
Put this one on the reality side of the board, but if marketed correctly, could grab the attention of some of those students that we are letting get away.